Jo-Anne Lim

Monday, February 14, 2011

WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO YOU?

The real definition of love for me? 

This one:


...and oh, let's not forget 1 Corinthian 13. Here's an image. Read.

Corny? 
I don't think so.



Love isn't what we feel, but what we do.

Well anyways, there are different kinds of love though.
Now let me discuss about love for the opposite sex.



"Is it love?"

The infatuation stage is very clear with a beginning and an end.
 The attachment phase can last a lifetime. It potentially grows stronger and deeper over the years. 
Deep love when nurtured, often brings humans a sense of joy, peace, and care unlike any other emotion.




GIRLS: How would you know if he loves you?

Ask yourself:

1. Does he PRIORITIZE you?
2. Does he RESPECT you?
3. Do you think he ACCEPTS you for who you really are?
4. Does he help you make your dreams come true? ENCOURAGES you?
5. Is he CARING?
6. Does he TREAT YOU WELL?
7. Is he being MANIPULATIVE?
8. Do you feel USED?

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LISTEN TO WHAT YOU KNOW IS TRUE.
If the man you love does not love you, denying it will NOT make him love you.





Now if you feel ABUSED, LEAVE!!!


We always hear and read this phrase over and over again, however, lemme remind everyone again:
FIND SOMEONE WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE.

It wouldn't hurt if you would wait a little. Trust me :)




...but wouldn't it be more wonderful if you are receiving as much love as you give?
I'm not against UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.  But for me it's only applicable and acceptable if it's regarding our families,  our friends, and most importantly, our GOD.


 I believe I don't have to discuss everything. This is just a simple reminder to everyone.

In order to have a satisfying, healthy and a wonderful relationship, we all need to be WISE.
Recognize what you really want. Listen to how you truly feel.
Never settle for anything less. 
Know your worth. 

And to all the girls reading this:

Stay away from




***I was really planning to write a looong blog but I'm really really sleepy right now. My brain isn't functioning appropriately because of the long tiring hours of work.

So I guess that's all for now. Happy February 14 friends!

Be SAFE please! :p

STAY FABULOUS! <3




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